It could be when you’re sad after making a mistake.
The feelings or events that make you grow are different for everybody. Among all, having a heart broken is a popular one for sure: It makes you want to become a better person. Losing someone or something definitely needs to happen for growth, and you cannot avoid it.
For this article, Pixie, who runs a bar and airbnb in Bangkok, Thailand with his girlfriend, talks about what he has learned from his many heart broken experiences.
オーナーであるPixieさんは、元々ホステルの経営をしながら写真家としても活動していた。海外旅行も好きで、NYに長期滞在していた過去も。人と会話をすることが好きだと気づいた彼は、ホステルで交わす会話に物足りなさを感じはじめ、2015年にバーをオープンさせた。撮影や長期旅行で忙しい時期もあったため、オープン当初は不定期に運営していたそうだ。しかし、コロナの流行をきっかけに本格的にバー経営に専念する。外出禁止を強いられていた時期に、友人がお酒を楽しめる場所として提供をはじめた。シンハ―はもちろん、色とりどりのカクテルだけでなく、熱々のコンフォート・フードも魅力。ウェスタンな雰囲気が印象的なバーには、Pixieさんが子どもの頃から集めているというビデオテープやDVDを中心に面白いアイテムが見られる。気になるバーの名前である “Trailer Trash Blue Eyes” には、「最悪で美しい」という意味が込められている。直訳すると “ジャンキーが住んでいるトレーラー” に “美しい青い目” であり、どちらも対称的だ。「だれも完璧な人はいない」といったその美しさを表現している。
Pixie used to run a hostel by himself and also work as a photographer. He always knew that he loved to talk with people, and the conversations he was having at the hostel became not enough for him; he wanted to have deeper talks. In 2015, his little wish led him to open up a bar. It didn’t open regularly because he had to travel a lot at the time until the covid became a thing. Since the declaration of a state of emergency was announced, running the bar has been his main focus, and it is open almost everyday. Of course they serve sinha, nice cocktails, and even homemade comfort food. The bar itself got the western vibe inspired by the movies Pixie likes, and decorated with his collection all over the place. If you’re wondering, the bar is called “Trailer Trash Blue Eyes” and it basically means “fucked up beautiful” telling that nobody’s perfect, but that is the beauty.
美味しいお酒と料理を堪能したあとは、バーの真横にあるAirbnbで宿泊することも可能だ。その名も “Seeking Friends for the End of the Earth” 。世界の終わりに唯一残るシェルターのような場所であることを表している。こちらは、もともとホステルの運営が夢だったと話す彼女のNiceさんが担当。バー同様、部屋の内装には映画のポスターが多く飾られている。子どもの頃に見た『トイ・ストーリー』をきっかけに、サイエンスフィクションやファンタジー映画を中心に魅了されていったという彼女が創る素敵な空間となっている。陽気なPixieさんに比べ、あまり多くを語らないNiceさんは、コミュニケーションがあまり得意ではないと話す。しかし、お互いを助け合えるのがカップルのいいところなのではないか。
After enjoying tasty cocktails and food, or even a movie night they have weekly, you can have a nice sleep at Airbnb right next to the bar. The place is called “Seeking Friends for the End of the Earth”. It’s like where people can come and find friends after the end of the earth. Pixie’s girlfriend, Nice is in charge of the Airbnb business. She’s been dreaming about running a hostel for a while. “Toy Story” made her fall in love with movies like SF and fantasy. Likewise the bar, there are movie posters and photos up on the wall. Talking to people isn’t her strongest suit, but obviously Pixie can be little help there.
Having a partner does a great thing with love, but it is hard to maintain the relationship with time passing. Either of them or both need to work on compromising to stay happy together. Though, the love you feel becomes double. On this topic, Pixie is very happy with the life he’s having with Nice, and he’s willing to share the happiness with people that come to his bar. On the other hand, he sees himself struggling creating art during the past few years he’s in a relationship. Every time he got his heart broken, that was when he felt motivated to work on photography. In fact, many masterpieces were born from sadness and loss. Losing something is one of the important steps to go forward in life.
[Trailer Trash Blue Eyes]
Address: 3 15 Soi 19, Chatuchak, Bangkok 10900, Thailand
Some people like to change their lifestyle constantly, and some people like to stick with what they already have. In today’s world, it’s harder for the latter because the world is changing so fast that you’re expected to adapt a little at least. But it’s always the best if you can keep your style.
There are a certain amount of skaters who seem to have a complaint about the way of skateboarding exists now in Japan. The beauty of skating is somehow lost with new perspectives of it, often seen as a sport rather than a culture. It’s making huge changes influenced by society and other events; for example, street skating is getting more and more restricted. Because skaters always have expressed themselves against what society wants them to be or do, they tend to find their own style and rules to live with. It’s harder to keep the skate culture as it is.
However, skateboarding has gotten a good impact as well. After the olympics, they recognized the need of skateparks so that a lot of new ones are currently under construction everywhere. Also you can buy skate gears from your favorite skate shops, either online or in store anytime. For those of you who want to have run a skateboarding business, there’re more options and chances to go success. Even if you miss the old school of skating, you should be grateful for what society has brought in.
SNS might’ve changed the role of skate videos as well. It used to be common for skaters to make their video part, in order to get sponsored from skate brands or some sort. But now, anybody can easily record videos on iPhone and go viral. There maybe some skaters who became famous because of the short videos they post on Instagram.
We’re here to introduce a Japanese girl skater, Sayaka, who is about to have her video part soon. She has close to 40,000 followers on Instagram, and is popular all over the world for her skating. It seems like she’s successful getting the attention, but her dream is further in the different direction. What does it mean for her to appear in a skate video? For this article, she talks about how she got into skating and the future she envisions.
Sayaka started skating when she was in college. Before then, her passion was playing the trumpet for a long time. One day, one of her friends had started working at a sports shop, and she bought a skateboard there. They both started together, but Sayaka got into skating more and more. There’re a lot of people saying that going to a skate park alone as a beginner is scary, though there was never a thought like that in Sayaka’s mind: She started going to Komazawa park by herself. Youtube was a great source to learn basic tricks from, and it was no problem. But she quickly became friends with people at the skatepark. There’re many chances you can start a conversation at skateparks, even if you are new and practicing alone by the edge of a fence.
There were not many girl skaters back then, and that’s what made Sayaka grow as a skater in a way. Even now, girls who skate with boys seem to get better than those who don’t. She got the most out of the environment, but there were some jerks too. Now that she thinks about it, it could’ve been one of the fuels; one of her skater friends told her that her “boring” life is literally showing in her skating. Of course she’s still mad at the person.
Sayaka used to have this idea that she had to be the best at everything when she was in school. But then skateboarding changed that, because she learned that it’s okay to celebrate every time she got close to achieving goals, in this case they are skate tricks. She realized that it’s more important to enjoy the process, not the result. As she practices, she’s gained confidence in herself.
After college, Sayaka had worked at an apparel store and gotten promoted to a store manager in 2 years. She felt that there was nothing more she could do, so she quit and traveled the world. English wasn’t her strong suit, but she was able to communicate through skating. You can still share happiness and other emotions without saying a word. That’s how she made friends everywhere.
It’s a sure thing that Sayaka has impressed many people in and outside Japan by her skating skills with the style. Moreover, she has occasionally contributed to the girl’s skate community in Japan as well. She became a part of Nike SB dojo team in 2019, and worked as a staff at the first skatepark owned by Nike SB. “GIRLS NIGHT” was a weekly event where only girls and trans people could come and skate during the set up time. The event was successful every week and eventually led to a one day event called “GIRLS SKATE FESTIVAL”. During the time when more and more girls started skating, those events helped expand the girl’s skate scene.
Finally Sayaka is taking a step forward to one of her dreams; making a skate part, at 9th year of skate life. A domestic deck company, Lesque Skateboards has supported her through it. For this video, she is committed to only using the clips she got during the day for two reasons: One is that it’s a “Welcome” part and it should be bright as the beginning of starting something new. Another is that the riders of Lesque, Ryo Motohashi and Kenya Okuno both express lightness and smartness through skating. It’s challenging because it’s getting harder and harder to skate in the street, especially in a city like Tokyo. Street skating at night is a way to escape from the cops or security guards.
It seems like Sayaka has been getting enough spotlights for herself, but why does she want to have her skate part? She answers to the question, it’s a dream that she wants to be a skater ,whom skaters would be like “Oh yeah she fucking shreds!”. And it’s always gonna be judged by skate videos. She’s hoping to have her full skate part one day.
When you need a skate gear, there’re a lot of options you can choose from: your favorite skate shops, franchise skate shops, or online. In Japan, there are currently about 400 shops that sell skate gears. The two big reasons why Skateboarding became popular here are because of the olympics and the covid-19. In fact, it has been almost 80 years since skateboarding arrived in Japan, and not many people know the history of it.
Everybody has their different reasons to get a new skateboard deck: The nose or tail starts to chip, or they get bored of the current ones they have. As you continue to love skateboarding, there will be so many times you need to change your decks in your life. It is okay if you don’t know how to set up your skateboard at first. Someone at skate shops is always willing to help you. And eventually you can do it all by yourself.
But it is a bit of work to change your setup. There are a total of 8 bolts & nuts to keep the trucks and the deck for a standard. You need to take everything out and put them back on. Before that, having a skate tool is most important. A lot of you may want to ask your skate shop friends to do it for you, even though you have been skating for a long time.
Not many people can pursue one thing all their life and become successful. Those that can, make a history and contribute to the future. Their energy is only focused on one thing at a time, so that it will be quicker to achieve it. Though it is hard to do so for some people. According to astrology, Aries and Capricorn seem to be good at sticking with what they decide to accomplish. On the other hand, some people can naturally develop interests in different areas. You don’t have to look for one thing you can be good at, because you might not be born for it. It’s okay to wok on multiple things at a time too because that could create a new thing or thought. Not only respecting difference in colors of skin or sex, but more importantly accepting different types of personalities is also about diversity. Knowing who you are as a person will help you make decisions easier.